Love vs. Feelings

I'm writing this because I was confused about the relationship between love and feelings.

I just had meaningful conversation with someone close to me.

I have been aching to hear the lesson and at last I did.
Love
That in loving someone you must encourage one another, and not tolerate each other's bad habits. Yes, accepting the person is sweet but a bad habit of somebody you love could drain you too much and you will get suffocated and eventually exhausted. You'll get back again and it will be like a cycle of that kind of event and we wouldn't want to torture ourselves unless we want to die a martyr. So what do we do? It's time to face the fact that change is something we need if there's something that messes us inside, even if we can take it, if you love yourself, take care of it, don't take it for granted, save it.
Feelings
Insecurities, it's when the person gets really really mad at you when you can do anything you wanna do while he/she feels stuck You fight everytime you went out of his control. and you feel like it's your fault and that the person just crazily loves you that is why he/she's freaking out. Why would someone gets insecure w/ you? hmm.. maybe because you are you..assess yourself. Insecurities brought them the feeling of choking someone they love disguising this as" I'm just so in love with you" where in fact they just hated you because of your status., because you can fly without them, you can succeed on your own, you could be happy on your own.
They would also treat you like you're the one who's selfish while truth is, they are. They want you there with them, they feel the need to control you before you'd be able to learn to live a life without them.

No one has the right to control us, own us and promise us anything..because eternal, unconditional and deepest Love only comes from up high.

Feelings- I will die without you, I couldn't be happy without you, I couldn't live without you.
Love- I will die just for you, I'd be happy for you, I can live without you if you desire it, because I love you.
Feelings- You are selfish
Love- If that is what makes you happy
Feelings- I don't wanna see you anymore
Love- It would be more perfect to see you happier than ever
Feelings-Don't you ever do that
Love- I trust in you
Feelings- I have regrets
Love- I will pray for you

With all his/her feelings toward you,
You think what he/she's doing is because he/she loves you?
You think everything you've been through was your fault?
We are all designed to do such hardwork, designed to dream and make dreams come true,
don't let anyone stop you from becoming who you're supposed to be.
so..
Think twice.
Don't mix and makes mistakes.
Real Love is beyond understanding.
When you find one even in the shortest span of time.
Lucky you. Keep it. He's the one.