For further understanding about what the word 'pa-hopeful' means, I would like to refer you to a friend's blog that has its clear meaning/definition of it. If you also want the 'Guys' version of ' Different Types of Pa-hopefuls' it's also there.:my thoughts for the day
First of all, my version, the 'Ladies' version, is composed of different scenarios that could have happen to you(girls) or to your friends..neighbors..classmates..batch mates..enemies..whatever. I just want to emphasize on the qualities a typical woman may or could have.
I would like to introduce to you Jenny and Jim as the primary characters of the scenarios below. If you happen to know a girl named 'Jenny' or a guy named 'Jim'. This is not them.haha
I should now begin!
Pa-hopeful Woman No. 1 --The 'Runway' pa-hopeful--
The runway pahopeful is a very much career oriented type of woman. She will do anything just to fly high. And even though she knows that deep inside she also wants to reach out to someone, she won't because she thinks she needs to focus more on her job and she believes that someone, when given an attention, will only clash and interfere into her career plans.
A runway model wears that super fit top and inches high heels and endures the difficulty to breathe. The pain in her legs are increasing every step she takes.
But the thing is, she loves what she's doing and even though she knows and feels the difficulties and pains, she chooses not to care about them.
Jenny is like that runway model, very dedicated to her career.
Jim on the other hand reaches out to jenny over and over again, I imagined him like a fan of that model, he watch her ramp, take pictures of her, carry her clothes and buy her meal.
Jenny knows that all, she knows deep in her heart that Jim's always been a part of her ramp, of her life and he is becoming even more noticeable every time, every bit of his presence she feels it but because she's too much into her career, she chooses not to think about jim at all. Every time that Jim comes into jenny's mind, she strongly convinces herself that, yes, jim could be a part of her life, but not the priority. She feels that she needs Jim but not as much as her career.
but how did she manage to let Jim stay at her side?
Like the pain and difficulties the runway model feels during her ramp, she also finds time to pamper herself, like she goes to a spa and then go shopping.
jenny knows her need for jim in her life so she also knows that she has to go out on dates and dinners with him so that somehow Jim will stay and will hold on to his belief and hope for jenny's approval..
Pa-hopeful Woman No. 2 --The Ms. Barbie doll pa-hopeful--
Jenny is a description of the OUTSIDE beauty. She's everyone's eyecandy. She turns the head of all the guys when she walks into that room and makes them blush when she smiles at them. Jenny is every guys dream girl.
Except for jim. Jim, is a quiet, simple, not that very handsome guy in the corner of that room, but most of the girls are attracted to him because of his manly-tough bad boy type of look. jim doesn't stun jenny that much, but she's really attracted to jim's mysterious type of personality, she has this feeling..she wants to see jim admire her like most of the guys do but jim is different from them. jenny, is somehow frustrated with jim and she wants him to feel that frustration too. Jenny always gets what she wants, and since she has many friends/fans beside her, she uses them so she'd get to know more about Jim.
When Jenny and Jim became friends, Jenny felt the mission of solving the mystery has just started, Jenny finds out that jim likes simple girls and so Jenny made herself simple, shirt and jeans, no make-up. jenny still stuns the guys every where she goes and Jim is liking the feeling that he's with the prettiest girl in town. Jenny changed her attitude atleast for Jim. and it did turned him on. Jim was known as a guy who doesn't fall for a girl that easy, and girls who envy Jenny for her beauty and appeal, envy her more for having Jim at her side. Jenny now likes the feeling of Jim beside her. Jim eventually fell for her and Jenny loves the thought. Jenny's plan does not include having him as her boyfriend because she doesn't really like that idea, she only wants all the attention. Jim continues to go crazy about her and jenny remains the same. she's too proud of herself that she's got Jim chasing over her.
Pa-hopeful Woman No. 3 --The out of sight out of mind pa-hopeful--
The out of sight out of mind pahopeful is a complicated type of pahopeful. why?
here's the story:
Jenny is a hardworking and friendly woman. Jim is her officemate and they really get along very well. Jim likes jenny a lot and he feels that jenny likes him too. And yes, Jenny do like Jim, but the problem is Jenny is into a relationship state! Does Jim knows? yes. but Jim's hope is so much about Jenny.
why? Because jenny spends a lot of time with jim than her real boyfriend.
this is like a love triangle, Jenny's boyfriend is a very busy, workaholic man, let's name him johnny. johnny is a businessman who travels a lot because it is necessary for his job. jenny loves johnny but she doesn't see him as often as she sees jim, and not only that, because they're in the same office, they spend more time together, more talking and laughing.
Jenny misses johnny so much and jim is her only solution. Whenever she goes out with Jim, she felt that her loneliness was resolved. she felt that she's cool without johnny because here's jim. Jenny likes jim, he's a friend. But she doesn't like jim to take the place of johnny because she LOVES johnny. she just needs to have someone to be with when johnny is not around. someone to make her forget her longingness for johnny. someone that will make her happy aside from johnny. What jenny does is she also makes jim feels that she likes him so that jim won't leave and will continue to be with her when she needs him. the bad thing about jenny is that she tells jim that johnny is too lax with their relationship, she makes jim believe that she feels bad about johnny and it might make her leave him and because jim trusts her, he believes and hopes he'd take place with johnny in jenny's life but deep inside jenny, she can't afford to leave someone like johnny whom she loves so much. she only wants sympathy from jim and she wants jim to stick with her because he fills her emptiness.
Pa-hopeful Woman No. 4 --The ShHopper pa-hopeful--
This pa-hopeful is a headache. Like a shopaholic, she hop from one botique to another but there's a little difference about the shHopper and shopaholic. The shopaholic loves to buy anything she wants and she's really buying it. ShHopper is someone who PRETEND to shop but what she usually does is wow i like this dress..i love this necklace..i want this coat..I will come back later for this. She finds the store exit and HOP to another store and same script.! Shoper-Hopper. She assures that she's coming back later or tomorrow or another day and is going to buy the stuff she wants badly but she really have no plans buying it, she only wants to prevent people from getting irritated at her style so she assures them but never keep her words.
Here's the story:
Jenny likes Jim, jim noticed it and he responded. When johnny passed by, Jenny smiled at Johnny and Johnny noticed it and he responded. Jenny actually likes them both. It's just that, Jenny want to see if there's still somebody she's gonna like more than the two guys in front of her.
Jenny assures every man she likes and gives them hints that she likes'em. But truth is, she only collects guys she likes. She likes the idea of being surrounded with guys she wants to be with..she wants them to know she's available but is not really taking each of them seriously...
